My husband is either too busy or too tired. There is only so many times a woman can throw herself at a man. And anyway, perhaps a sign that he's cheating - who knows. Anyway, I'm not looking for a new man, just an occasional man for a little side action if you know what I mean. Can ye help me out? All I'm looking 4 is a short time mafted -fun, aka leg over. I don't want him finding out, so let's be discreet about it. What do u say?