Have been with husband for 14 years although yes I was young. The reason I'm here? My marriage is dull I have tried to change that but hubby is unintrested, unloving and distant both physically and emotionally.I'm looking for a little spark to change that. I will never leave him so I'm looking to fill a void with conversation/chat and see where it goes. That's the serious stuff over with, I'm actually good fun and enjoy a bit of banter and mess about I don't take much else too seriously and love a carry on