If theres one thing I enjoy its being in control of my life and not having anyone to answer to. Having sexual encounters with a new man is exciting. I guess its the anticipation of what that person is going to do or be like. Age not terribly important. Cleanliness and the ability to be discreet are a must. I dont want to be held back with a relationship because I have a boyfriend. Sex is an important part of life and thats what were here for all after